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Marriage…When it becomes a regret
Sometimes, I regret to get married…Not the husband…i’m grateful for him but for life after…I thought, it was him that I needed to deal with but apparently no.
I don’t know…It’s been number x, i have problems with his in laws, and he can’t stand up for me…He said, he does but with his way, i don’t see any progress.
I’m tired of keeping cold-war because of in laws like this…really-really tired and STUPID!
I never asked him to get close to any in my family because I knew they are crazy and I humbly won’t push anyone to get close to them but not him. He always drags me and drags me into his family which I don’t feel comfortable at most of time (with certain people)…
I’m sick of his way to solve this problem and I wish there will be no fight over this stupid silly matter and no other new proposal to me to again re-drag me into uncomfortable situation.
Perhaps 1 thing that in laws should know: I’m marrying their kid doesn’t make me their kid as well! In laws is still in laws. They should respect me as my parents repsect my husband as well. If they can’t let go their kid to get marry with someone and DON’T!: either have a kid or ask their kid to be a priest!
EVEN A VERY STUPID, UNEDUCATED, SUPER TRADITIONAL WIFE WILL NOT STAND WITH THIS SITUATION. THEY MIGHT BE EITHER CRAZY OR DEPRESSED!
I have a cousin who suffered of living with his mother. He was with his family (a wife, a son). His mother really-really lower their family and ‘drag’ them with anything in the “bible” (non-Christian nor Cath) said…IN THE END, the whole suffering family moved out of the house. They couldn’t stand anymore.
It was his wife who took care of the household, it was his son who ‘accompanied’ the mother but the mother didn’t see what her son and inlaw did for her.
In my case, I think I’m being ‘abused’ as the pillow of stressful in law with their own situation. Like no their own kid visit them very often, no grandchildren in the house…they saw me and they are like ‘beating’ me up. I don’t like my husband’s mother ‘hit’ my head. It looked like joking but NO FUNNY AT ALL!
I can’t take it anymore. THEY ONLY DARE TO DO THINGS LIKE THAT AND DO SHOW OFF OR SAY ANYTHING THAT CAN OFFEND ME OR SENSITIVE TO SAY…ONLY, ONLY, TO ME. They don’t have any such courage to do that to other in laws.
I don’t know what their problem is but, to honest, I don’t care anymore. Your problem is your problem, not mine. If you can appreciate my politeness and hospitality, then bye-bye…I’m married to serve my family and in this case still my husband ONLY. Not including them. They are supposed to be their children responsibility, not in laws.
Actually, their daughter has offered a hand, so they would live with her in other town but know what? with unclear reason, they didn’t want to go…They didn’t want to go..ok…but annoying other who is NOT THEIR BLOOD-CHILD????? COME ONNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IT’S NOT FAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I can’t even stand to stay with my parents and now them???????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
They couldn’t maintain a good relationship…so, I guess, I have nothing to say…I have my own life…I’ll live my own life. Thank you very much!
Posted: Monday, January 18th, 2010 @ 11:35 pm
Categories: Life.
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